Appa and Me

Yesterday I had some adult life conversation with my appa which I thought of sharing

Me : Appa,I spent 5 hard years in med school to graduate and now I have to wait a few months to get placement

Appa : Son to make you feel better let me share my story with you.Do you know how long it took me to get my 1st promotion?...10 years before that I was an ordinary worker who got rejected numerous time. Things take time son

Me : Yeah hopefully...some more I need to find a perfect girl that understand my kontrak doctor thing

Appa : hahaha son the word perfect is found only in dictionary.No perfect girl exist let me pop that bubble. Do you know how many times I and your amma fought and didn't talk to each other.What you see right now is 25 years of friendship and love.Even relationship take time. Build one

Me : Wow appa great...thanks for the advice

Appa : Lastly son something out of topic,reduce the time with phone.It doesn't help.Do you remember why I got you a phone

Me : To contact everyone and to call you and amma

Appa : Yeap but how many times in a day do you call me?

Me : Appa,we stay in the same house then why use phone

Appa : Who said...even I and your amma stay in the same house but after going work I call her during lunch hour

Me : hahaha okay...nice advice appa...that's alot for a day

Appa : hahaha sorry for nagging

Me : Appreciate it

Sometimes the best life advice are there right beside us

Thank you